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The Power of Positive Thinking

In this episode - The Power of Positive Thinking . . .

The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale is a self-help book that explores the impact of optimism and positive thoughts on your life. Peale emphasizes the influence of one's thoughts on shaping experiences and achieving success. This small book has sold over 5 million copies since it was first published in 1952. I recently purchased a copy from our local Barnes & Noble and read it again because our lives were changing once more. Let me explain.

As 2023 draws to a close, I have taken it upon myself to reflect on what has influenced my thinking and my life. Like many, during these challenging times of war in Israel and Ukraine, with the proliferation of hate and violence, I am trying to regain the optimism that fueled me to become who I am today.

After moving to California in April 1985, I felt compelled to meet Dr. Norman Vincent Peale (see Dreamers). Why? Not because I had read his book but because the Title had a profound influence on my thinking and attitude. That year, my life dramatically changed; I moved to California to attend the Gemological Institute of America. In doing so, I decided my thinking had to change, so I enrolled in The Dale Carnegie Course for Public Speaking and Human Relations. This was the catalyst that started driving me into the self-help era that was prevalent at the time.

The self-help movement grew and diversified during the latter half of the 20th century. It was made possible by the amazing contributions of authors and speakers like Norman Vincent Peale, Zig Ziglar, Tony Robbins, Robert Schuller, Louise Hay, and Stephen Covey. They offered valuable advice on many topics, such as positive thinking, motivation, success, relationships, health, and spirituality.

It was 1952 when Peale published his book that encourages readers to develop a positive mindset, which can help them overcome obstacles and achieve personal goals. According to Peale, it is crucial to believe in oneself, nurture faith, and use affirmations to reprogram your mind for success. By focusing on positive thoughts and visualizing desired outcomes, you can attract favorable circumstances and opportunities.

This book offers practical advice on techniques such as prayer, visualization, and affirmations to combat negativity and develop resilient, optimistic attitudes. Peale emphasizes the power of faith in achieving miracles and encourages readers to tap into their inner strength to overcome obstacles.

Additionally, Peale suggests surrounding oneself with positive influences, avoiding negative people and situations, and practicing gratitude to maintain a positive outlook. While rereading this book during the holidays, Chapter 6 - Stop Fuming & Fretting impacted me deeply. I had allowed myself to become consumed by anger, irritation, frustration, and worry, which can damage one's mental and physical health. In this chapter, he discusses how these negative emotions can lead to stress, anxiety, and even health issues if left unchecked.

Peale emphasizes the need to avoid fuming and fretting by adopting a more positive and constructive approach to handling challenging situations. He suggests several practical techniques to overcome these negative emotions:

  1. Develop Self-Control: Acknowledge that everyone faces frustrations and irritations; Peale advises practicing self-control by consciously choosing not to dwell on these negative emotions.
  2. Countering Negative Thoughts: He encourages replacing negative thoughts with positive affirmations and constructive thinking. This involves consciously redirecting thoughts towards solutions and positive outcomes rather than dwelling on problems.
  3. Use Physical Action: Physical activities or exercise can help dissipate frustration and stress. Redirecting energy towards constructive tasks will be beneficial.
  4. Practice Relaxation Techniques: Peale recommends relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or prayer to calm the mind and release tension.
  5. Seek Perspective: Putting situations into perspective and realizing that most problems are temporary and manageable helps reduce stress and worry.

Overall, The Power of Positive Thinking serves as a guide to transforming one's mindset, fostering optimism, and harnessing the power of positive thoughts to lead a fulfilling and successful life.


I’m Patrick Ball. Make it a great New Year, its your choice. See you in the next episode.

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