In this episode, Is Your Attitude Worth Catching?
In the quiet of the house, where stillness runs deep,
With no cars on the street, not a honk or a peep.
A soft breeze was drifting, just outside my door,
While the wind chimes were singing their song as before.
I picked up a book, Ryan Holiday's Key,
And sitting right there, it occurred to me:
In this pocket of calm, as I started to read,
This stillness was something I desperately need.
A few weeks ago, I fell off my bike. Nothing major for the news, but it slowed me down, caused pain, and reminded me that recovery reduces your defenses. When your body’s off, patience follows.
And that’s when the noise gets louder.
We are surrounded by extreme polarization and a kind of cultural exhaustion that seems to hum in the background of everything. Recently, I noticed that just hearing certain political names mentioned in the news triggered a visceral flash of anger in me—the kind that shows up uninvited and, in the moment, feels completely justified.
And that’s the trap.
The 24-hour news cycle—where calm doesn’t trend, nuance is treated like a design flaw, and volume somehow passes for wisdom—has a way of slipping past your defenses. Before long, it’s not just informing you… It’s forming you.
That is the real challenge, isn’t it? Knowing the theory of a positive mindset is easy; holding onto it when your core values feel tested is something else entirely.
I’ve learned I can’t just think my way out of problems. My mind caused the storm; it doesn’t always help to solve it. When frustration hits, I change the channel physically—take a quiet walk, go for a cautious ride, read a Dr. Seuss book, or play a song on guitar—badly but with enthusiasm.
Because sometimes progress isn’t about brilliance—it’s about interruption.
That’s why I write this blog, read a lot, and record these podcasts. It's not because I have all the answers—but because I don’t. The skill of noticing isn’t something I’ve fully mastered; it’s a practice I keep coming back to. It’s my way of daily voting for a bit more clarity, more steadiness, and less noise.
There’s a reason Zig Ziglar talked about a regular “check-up from the neck up.” If attitude really does drive so much of how we experience life, ignoring it isn’t just careless—it’s costly.
It reminds me of a profound piece of wisdom most of us learned long before we ever picked up a book on Stoicism. In Horton Hears a Who!, Dr. Seuss wrote, “A person’s a person, no matter how small.”
Horton the Elephant chose kindness and compassion throughout his journey. He proved that anyone, big or small, can speak out for what is right. He didn't focus on the noise, the jungle's mockery, or the prevailing outrage; he focused on the inherent dignity of a voice others chose to ignore.
Lately, it feels like we’ve become experts at the opposite. We dig for flaws. We polish outrage. We hold up the loudest, angriest voices and call it the whole story.
But when I catch myself falling into that pattern, I have to deliberately pause and shift the lens. The good is still there. It always is. It just doesn’t announce itself with a breaking news banner.
When we choose to look for dignity, for effort, for the quiet good in people—just like Horton tuning in to that tiny, important voice—we take something important back. Not control of the world, perhaps. But control of how we meet it.
These are the questions I’m asking myself this week, and I invite you to sit with them too:
- Are the daily inputs I’m consuming feeding my anxiety, or fueling my growth?
- Am I spending my energy polishing outrage, or practicing compassion?
- If someone “caught” my attitude today, would it make them better?
To protect your stillness is not a quick trick,
It’s a day-after-day kind of habit to stick!
So watch what you carry, the mood that you pack,
Is it one you'd be happy if others caught back?
Let’s make sure it’s bright, like a wonderful song—
An attitude worth catching, and passing along!
I’m Patrick Ball. Stay curious, ask better questions. See you next time!
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